Honestly, I’m constantly analysing myself, and more often than I’d like to admit, I’m the one throwing a wrench in my own progress — cutting my nose off to spite my face, as they say.

I show up every day, get in front of the camera, speak publicly, but that pesky little voice of doubt still sneaks in, making me want to hit pause or retreat.

Here’s what I’ve figured out so far:

1. Just showing up is a win

It doesn’t have to be perfect — in fact, it rarely is. But doing it anyway? That’s the real progress.

2. Spot your sneaky self-sabotage

Sometimes it’s obvious. Other times it’s little things — putting things off, downplaying wins, or avoiding the next step. Catch it early and gently steer yourself back on track.

3. Talk back to the doubt monster

Say your fears out loud, then remind yourself of what you’ve actually done and achieved. It’s like telling that critic to take a hike.

4. Mistakes aren’t the enemy

They’re messy, sure — but they’re how you get better. Give yourself permission to be perfectly imperfect.

5. Keep showing up

Confidence isn’t an on/off switch. It’s a muscle you build by sticking with it, even when it feels shaky.

If you’re in the same boat, keep going. Being real and showing up is the secret sauce.

Like that little flame refusing to be snuffed out, every time you show up you’re getting stronger — even when doubt tries to blow you out.

How have you pushed through self-doubt recently? Drop your story below. I’d love to hear it!

Ray